ℹ️ Use this section to make your client feel seen—not diagnosed. Describe what the problem looks like in their everyday life and how it feels internally, using the words your clients would actually use. Avoid clinical definitions, jargon, or simply listing diagnostic symptoms.

[Relatable statement about the problem your client is experiencing]

Maybe lately, [relatable description of what has been going on]. You’ve tried [what they’ve already tried], but you still can’t seem to [what they wish would change].

On the outside, it might look like:

  • You [specific behaviour, habit, or situation]

  • You [specific behaviour, habit, or situation]

  • You [specific behaviour, habit, or situation]

  • You [specific behaviour, habit, or situation]

But underneath all of that, it feels more like…

  • “[thought they have but might not say out loud].”

  • “[fear or worry they keep coming back to].”

  • “[way they feel about themselves].”

  • “[thing they secretly wish were different].”

And after a while, [how this problem is affecting their confidence, relationships, identity, work, or everyday life].

ℹ️ Use this section to share your philosophy about the problem your client is facing. Start with the belief or expectation you want to challenge, show how it impacts your client, then clearly state what you believe they deserve instead.

[What you believe should be true]—Not [the expectation or belief you’re challenging].

Somewhere along the way, [ideal client] [were taught/started to believe] that [common belief, expectation, or “should” you want to challenge].

[What they feel expected to sacrifice / tolerate / be]

[What they feel expected to sacrifice / tolerate / be]

[What they feel expected to sacrifice / tolerate / be]

[What they feel expected to sacrifice / tolerate / be]

[I/We] don't believe that.

You deserve [the alternative you believe is possible] where [desired outcome], [desired outcome], and [what matters most to them] matter too.

ℹ️Use this section to build trust specifically around this specialty. Briefly share why this work matters to you, what shapes your approach, and what makes you qualified to support clients with this particular concern. Keep it personal and relevant to the specialty rather than repeating your full bio.

Why work with me?

I’m passionate about helping [ideal client] with [specialty/problem] because [brief personal connection, lived experience, or reason this work matters to you]. I understand [something specific about their experience that makes them feel seen], and that shapes the way I approach this work.

My approach to [specialty] is [2–3 qualities that describe your approach]. Together, we’ll focus on [what you help them understand/change/work through] so you can [desired outcome or transformation].

[Relevant training/certification]

[Years or type of experience]

[Professional membership]

[location or virtual availability]

[Specialized modality/approach]

ℹ️ Use this section to shift the focus from the problem to what’s possible. Briefly explain how this type of therapy can help, then focus on the changes your client can expect in how they think, feel, respond, and live. Keep it outcome-focused rather than listing techniques or modalities.

How [specialty] therapy can help

[Specialty therapy] can help you [work through/understand/ change primary challenge] so you can [desired emotional outcome], [desired practical outcome], and ultimately [bigger transformation].

Together, we’ll work toward helping you:

  • [Desired emotional change] instead of [current emotional experience]

  • [Desired thought/mindset change] instead of [current thought pattern]

  • [Desired behavioural or relationship change] instead of [current pattern]

  • [Desired sense of self/identity change] so you can [bigger outcome]

The goal isn’t to [unrealistic outcome or misconception]. It’s to help you [realistic, meaningful transformation they can carry into their life].

ℹ️ Use this section to show clients what they can work toward through therapy. Focus on meaningful changes in how they think, feel, respond, and live—not the therapy techniques you’ll use. Keep each outcome short, specific, and realistic. Avoid guarantees by using language like help you, learn to, build, develop, and work toward.

Headline formulas: Therapy can help you stop [current struggle] and start [desired change]. / Therapy can help you feel [desired state] without [thing they fear having to do/change]. / Therapy can help you build a life where [bigger transformation]. /Therapy can help you [desired transformation]—without [common misconception or fear].

Therapy can help you [big-picture transformation]

Not by [misconception about what needs to change]—but by helping you:

[understand yourself / your experience differently]

[reduce or better manage difficult emotional experience]

[change an unhelpful pattern or response]

[build confidence, trust, or another internal resource]

[build confidence, trust, or another internal resource]

[feel more desired emotional state / way of being]

ℹ️ Choose 4–6 FAQs that are specific to this specialty and reflect what clients are actually wondering before reaching out. Use natural, conversational questions your ideal client might type into Google or ask during a consultation. Keep answers brief, helpful, and reassuring. Avoid repeating general FAQs that are already answered elsewhere on your website.

Frequently Asked Questions About [Specialty] Therapy

It’s normal to have questions before deciding whether therapy is right for you. Here are a few things you might be wondering about [specialty/problem] and what getting support can look like.

How do I know if I need therapy for [specialty/problem]?

[Briefly explain common reasons someone might seek support and reassure them that they don’t need to wait until things feel “bad enough.”]

Can therapy help with [specific symptom, struggle, or concern]?

[Explain how therapy may support this concern without guaranteeing a specific result.]

What does [specialty] therapy actually look like?

[Briefly explain what clients can expect and how your approach is tailored to this specialty.]

What if I’m not sure whether [term/concept] is what I’m experiencing?

[Normalize uncertainty and explain whether a diagnosis, formal label, or assessment is necessary to begin therapy.]

How long does therapy for [specialty/problem] take?

[Explain that timelines vary based on the person, their goals, and what they want to work on.]

Is [online/in-person] therapy effective for [specialty/problem]?

[Explain how virtual or in-person therapy can support clients with this concern and any specialty-specific benefits of receiving therapy online.]

therapy for neurospicy brains

Online Therapy for ADHD, Built Around How Your Brain Actually Works.

Understand why you struggle with the things you do, let go of years of self-blame, and learn how to start working with your brain so life doesn’t have to feel so damn hard all the time.

You’re not struggling because you don’t care.

You care deeply. That’s part of what makes this so frustrating. You may find yourself:

  • procrastinating until panic takes over

  • starting over again and again

  • feeling overwhelmed by “simple” tasks

  • swinging between hyperfocus and shutdown

  • relying on pressure just to function

  • masking how hard things actually feel

  • feeling exhausted from holding everything together

  • doubting whether you can trust yourself to follow through

You’ve probably spent years hearing things like:

"You have so much potential.”

“You’re so smart, but…”

“Why is this so hard for you?”

“You just need to be more consistent.”

Over time, those words stop sounding like feedback.

They start feeling like identity.

And even though part of you knows you’re capable, another part wonders:

“What if I never become the person I know I could be?”

The hardest part about ADHD usually isn’t focus. It’s shame.

The shame of falling behind.
The shame of breaking promises to yourself.
The shame of being able to do something sometimes — but not consistently.
The shame of feeling like you’re always underperforming your own potential.

A lot of adults with ADHD don’t just struggle with productivity.

They struggle with self-trust.

After years of missed deadlines, forgotten tasks, unfinished projects, emotional overwhelm, and burnout, it can start to feel like:

“Maybe the problem isn’t ADHD. Maybe the problem is me.”

But you're not broken. And you were never meant to force yourself into systems built for completely different nervous systems.

When it comes to ADHD, I get it from both the clinical side and the personal side.

Many of the clients I work with have diagnosed or suspected ADHD, so I understand the clinical side of overwhelm, procrastination, emotional intensity, perfectionism, masking, overthinking, and that incredibly frustrating feeling of “Why can’t I just do the thing?”

But I also know what it’s like to actually live it.

I was diagnosed with ADHD at 30, after years of not fully understanding why certain things seemed so much harder for me than they did for everyone else. And that experience shapes how I work as a therapist.

You don’t need a formal ADHD diagnosis—or even want one—to start working with me. ADHD isn’t always the whole story, and things like anxiety, burnout, trauma, and chronic stress can look a lot like ADHD (or be happening right alongside it).

Instead of assuming ADHD is the answer, let's explore what’s really going on and what will be most helpful for you.

Maybe that’s exploring a formal diagnosis. Maybe it’s unpacking patterns and beliefs you’ve picked up over the years, making sense of why certain things feel harder for you, or finding practical strategies that actually fit your life.

The point isn’t to make you better at being “normal.” It’s to help you feel less frustrated with yourself, more confident in how you navigate life, and a whole lot more like you’ve finally figured yourself out.

Sessions & Rates

Stephanie Annesley

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

Currently Accepting Clients Residing in Ontario, British Columbia, Alberta, Manitoba & Saskatchewan

Sessions & Rates

Standard Therapy Session

Individual support to work through challenges, build new skills, and move toward your goals.

$150

  • Duration: 50 minutes

  • Availability: Accepting new clients

  • Location: Virtual

  • Support for Individuals residing in: Ontario, British Columbia, Alberta, Manitoba and Saskatchewan

  • Insurance: Receipts provided for reimbursement (Coverage varies by provider & plan)

  • Sliding Scale: All sliding scale spots are currently full.

Extended Therapy Session

More time to unpack complex challenges, gain clarity, and create meaningful change.

$200

  • Duration: 75 minutes

  • Availability: Accepting new clients

  • Location: Virtual

  • Support for Individuals residing in: Ontario, British Columbia, Alberta, Manitoba and Saskatchewan

  • Insurance: Receipts provided for reimbursement (Coverage varies by provider & plan)

Here's How It Works

step one

book an Intro Call

Not ready to dive in just yet? Start with a zero-pressure intro call. Ask your questions, tell me what’s going on, and see if I’m the therapist you’ve been looking for.

step two

Start Therapy

We’ll get curious about what’s keeping you stuck and create a plan to help you make meaningful changes you’re actually excited about.

step three

Feel the Shift

This is where the magic happens. Take what we uncover in therapy into real life, experience real growth and finally feel more like the woman you want to be.

Therapy Can Help You Stop Feeling At War With Yourself

Not by turning you into someone else — but by helping you:

understand how your ADHD brain actually works

reduce overwhelm, shame, and self-criticism

stop relying on stress and panic to function

rebuild trust in yourself and your abilities

create routines and systems that feel sustainable

feel more grounded, confident, and emotionally regulated

Areas of Support

ADHD & Executive Functioning

Support for focus, executive dysfunction, overwhelm, routines, time blindness, and ADHD burnout.

Anxiety & Overthinking

Racing thoughts, constant worry, spiraling, and emotional overwhelm

Burnout & Chronic Stress

Emotional exhaustion, survival mode, pressure, and difficulty slowing down

Emotional Regulation

Big emotions, rejection sensitivity, irritability spiraling, rejection sensitivity, and overwhelm

Self-Worth & Confidence

People-pleasing, self-criticism, shame, and feeling “not good enough”

Perfectionism & Imposter Syndrome

Fear of failure, overthinking, avoidance, and pressure to perform

Relationships & Boundaries

Difficulty saying no, communication struggles, and emotional patterns in relationships

Life Transitions & Identity

Feeling lost, stuck, disconnected, or unsure who you are anymore

High-Achievers & Creators

Ambition, visibility pressure, burnout, inconsistency, and identity tied to achievement

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You Don't Have to Keep Performing Functionality While Secretly Falling Apart

ADHD therapy can help you better understand your brain, manage ADHD overwhelm, rebuild self-trust, and build a life that actually works for you — not just one that looks acceptable from the outside.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about therapy for ADHD.

What can online therapy for ADHD help with?

What can online therapy for ADHD help with?

Online therapy for ADHD can help you better understand how your brain works and develop practical ways to manage the parts of everyday life that feel harder than they should.

That might include procrastination, overwhelm, emotional regulation, perfectionism, time management, organization, motivation, relationships, self-esteem, or that frustrating feeling of knowing what you need to do but still not being able to do it.

We can also work on the patterns and beliefs you may have picked up after years of struggling with things that seemed easier for everyone else.

Do I need an ADHD diagnosis to start therapy?

No. In 2026, you do not need to already have a formal ADHD diagnosis to start therapy with me for concerns like overwhelm, procrastination, emotional regulation, executive functioning, or other ADHD-related struggles.

Maybe you've been diagnosed for years. Maybe you only recently started wondering if ADHD could explain some of the things you've struggled with. Or maybe you're not interested in pursuing a diagnosis at all.

We can start with what you're experiencing right now and figure out what would actually be helpful for you.

Can online therapy help me figure out if I have ADHD?

Therapy can be a great place to explore whether your experiences might be related to ADHD, but therapy with me is not the same as receiving a formal ADHD diagnosis.

We'll look at what you're experiencing, how it's affecting your life, and what else might be contributing. That's important because anxiety, burnout, trauma, chronic stress, and other concerns can sometimes look like ADHD or exist alongside it. Formal ADHD assessment involves a broader diagnostic process that considers symptoms, impairment, history, and other possible explanations.

If pursuing a formal assessment makes sense for you, I can help you think through that next step.

What does ADHD therapy for adults actually like?

ADHD therapy isn't just someone telling you to buy a planner, make a to-do list, or “try harder.”

Because (ironically) most of what gets marketed to people with ADHD is built for neurotypical brains. If you've tried every planner, app, routine, and productivity hack and still feel like you're failing, the problem isn't your effort. Therapy helps you understand why those systems don't stick and build an approach that's actually designed for how your nervous system works.

Our sessions are a chance to understand what's actually making things difficult for you, work through the emotional side of living with ADHD, and find practical strategies that fit the way your brain and life actually work.

Depending on what you need, we might work on everything from overwhelm and executive functioning to relationships, self-esteem, emotional regulation, boundaries, perfectionism, or years of feeling like you should be doing better than you are.

Can ADHD therapy help with anxiety, burnout, or low self-esteem too?

Absolutely. And sometimes, what looks like ADHD might not actually be ADHD at all. Trouble focusing, procrastination, overwhelm, forgetfulness, or feeling constantly scattered can also show up with anxiety, burnout, trauma, chronic stress, depression, or other things going on in your life.

That’s why we won’t automatically assume everything you’re experiencing is “because of ADHD.” We’ll look at the bigger picture, get curious about what’s actually going on, and focus on whatever will help you feel and function better—ADHD or not.

Does online ADHD therapy work differently from in-person therapy?

Online ADHD therapy uses secure video sessions, so you can attend therapy from a private space without having to travel to an office. The actual work we do together is still personalized to you—your symptoms, experiences, goals, and what you want to get out of therapy.

For some people with ADHD, removing the extra steps of getting ready, commuting, parking, and sitting in a waiting room can also make therapy easier to fit into real life.

Virtual psychotherapy still follows the same professional standards around assessment, treatment planning, consent, confidentiality, and appropriate care as in-person psychotherapy.

Can you diagnose me with ADHD?

Unfortunately, not at this time. In 2026, Psychotherapists are not able to provide a formal ADHD diagnosis, however that doesn’t mean we can’t explore what you’re experiencing together. If it does look like ADHD may be part of the picture and you want the clarity of a formal diagnosis, I can help you understand your options and refer you to an appropriate qualified professional for a comprehensive ADHD assessment.

As part of therapy, we can talk through your symptoms, how they’re showing up in your everyday life, and patterns you may have noticed going all the way back to childhood. We can also use clinical screening tools to help us get a clearer picture of whether what you’re experiencing seems consistent with ADHD—or whether something else, like anxiety, burnout, trauma, depression, or chronic stress, might be contributing.

If you’re curious about whether your experiences could be related to ADHD, you can also start with the Adult ADHD Self-Report Screening Tool. It’s a quick self-assessment that can help you identify symptoms you may want to explore further. It isn’t a diagnosis, but it can be a helpful starting point.

Take the Adult ADHD Self-Assessment →

And remember, you don’t need a diagnosis to start working on the things you’re struggling with. We can focus on understanding what’s going on and finding strategies that help you now, whether or not you ever decide to pursue a formal assessment.

Where do you offer online therapy for ADHD?

My 2026 service locations for online ADHD therapy include adults residing in Ontario, Alberta, British Columbia, Manitoba, and Saskatchewan. Sessions are completely virtual, so you can meet with me from the comfort of your own space.

If you're not sure whether I'm able to work with you where you live, reach out and we can figure it out before you book.